Being Gay and the Question of Choice
How do you CHOOSE to like something how do they think that works. “Let’s do a several decades political movement and get married and have sex because we chose to like it” that is what they think happens, how does someone come to that conclusion. Someone who is coming out feels close enough to you and trusts you sufficiently to be honest and risk losing you as a friend. Below are some suggestions you may wish to follow. What causes sexual orientation?
Why Would Anyone Choose Hardship? If being gay were a choice, it would mean choosing a harder path—facing bullying, rejection, or even violence. No rational person chooses marginalization. And yet, despite the risks, gay men continue to live their truth. Not because they chose to be gay—but because they chose to stop pretending. The question of what causes some people to be gay has been a topic of endless debate among the general public and the mental health community. Generally speaking, the religious community of every persuasion views homosexuality as an abhorrent sin against God and nature. Why Do Some People Think Being Gay Is a Choice?
Is Being Gay a Choice? Considering whether people choose to be gay is complex. It very much appears that same-sex sexual attraction is not a choice but acting on it is; so if you define gay as the mere presence of same-sex attraction, then from everything we understand, being gay is not a choice. Hodges ruling legalized same-sex marriage nationwide. This project builds on a similar survey we conducted in among gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender adults and a series of focus groups that explored the experiences of transgender and nonbinary adults. 
HOW DOES ANYONE STILL THINK BEING GAY IS A CHOICE??????
It is a part of who someone is, just like being heterosexual is for others. However, there are still some individuals and groups who believe that being gay is a choice. Estimates as to the number of gay people in the population range from 1-in to 1-in, so why are some people gay? Are they gay by choice or is being gay genetic?
If Someone Comes Out to You
The first theory is that homosexuality is a choice. This argument states that individuals can choose to be attracted to someone of the same sex by actively making a decision. Supporters of this theory point to people who were once heterosexual but then “chose” to become homosexual as evidence. But what do gay men themselves think? Is being gay a choice—or is it something deeper, wired into us from the start? Why Are People Gay? Gay By Choice or Is Being Gay Genetic?
Many people wonder if being gay is a choice. The truth is, it’s not. Being gay appears to be a fundamental part of who someone is, not a learned behavior or a decision they make. . 
FAQs
What causes sexual orientation? It’s not completely known why someone might be lesbian, gay, straight, or bisexual. But research shows that sexual orientation is likely caused partly by biological factors that start before birth. People don’t decide who they’re attracted to, and therapy, treatment, or persuasion won’t change a person’s sexual orientation. You also can’t “turn. .
LGBTQ Americans
Way before we are making conscious decisions about anything. So people don’t choose to be gay, lesbian, or bisexual, just like people don’t choose to be straight. Being gay, lesbian, or bisexual may not be as common as being straight, but it is just as normal. .