How do you define gay, or how do you define as gay (or
Yes, being gay, in the more strict definition of the word, means having exclusively same-sex attraction. As the person you’re responding to said, the word is also used loosely for the whole LGBTQ+ community (eg, “this is a pretty gay tv show” could mean gay characters, trans or bi/pan characters, or just general queer themes). The term "gay" may be confusing and even foreign to some, forcing people to ask, "What is gay? While "gay" can be thought of as a synonym to "homosexual," there is more to the meaning of gay than that. HOW DOES ANYONE STILL THINK BEING GAY IS A CHOICE??????
Yeah, the only way "being gay is a choice" makes any logical sense is if the person actively has to make the decision to not be attracted to the same gender. Anyone who didn't choose their sexuality should be well aware that it isn't a choice. Estimates as to the number of gay people in the population range from 1-in to 1-in, so why are some people gay? Are they gay by choice or is being gay genetic? 
Can someone Please Explain the term 'Gay'
Gay is almost always used to define homosexual, but can be used as a simpler term to say you’re lesbian or have to explain being bi if youre in a same sex relationship. .
How does being gay define one’s identity?
Homosexuals of Reddit, what is something about being gay that a straight person would never guess is a thing you have to deal with on a regular basis?. . 
What Does It Mean to be Gay? Definition and Meaning of Gay
Recently I started thinking I might be gay. But now, I’m thinking about how this changes my life, and what it means for me. I have a few questions for more experienced people How will this affect my love life? What is it like to be gay? How can I accept myself? Is finding romance the same as a straight person? I don’t mean to burden anyone, I’m just scared to accept myself because of how. .
Why Are People Gay? Gay By Choice or Is Being Gay Genetic?
That's what being gay is like. And yeah, I pretty heavily believe that sexuality is fluid. It can and does sometimes change over time. Sexuality and attraction can be heavily determined by life circumstances and experiences, and can shift and change as those things do. You are a straight man, and you've probably never had reason to question that. . 
Homosexuals of Reddit, what is something about being gay that
How does being gay define one’s identity? So, genuinely asking to be educated, not start some stuff. I’ve been watching/reading stuff on identity lately and I’m curious how one’s identity is defined when LGBTQ+ is factored in. .
Why Are People Gay? Gay By Choice or Is Being Gay Genetic?
i understand the difference between gender identity and sexual orientation, but i feel these concepts are engaged somehow. so if being homosexual (gay or lesbian) means you're attracted the same gender, and being heterosexual means you're attracted to the opposite gender, how do you define this when you're non binary?. .