I'm a 29 year old gay man and my life isn't worth living. (A
Yes, being gay is difficult, and yes, we get served many different problems for no other reason than being gay. But saying "being gay is not worth it" is as much of a non-sequitur as someone saying "being disabled is not worth it" or "being black is not worth it". For many gay men, coming to terms with their sexuality can be both a challenge and a triumph - an act of self-liberation that leads to greater authenticity and self-understanding. The path to self-acceptance can look different for every individual. Being gay is not worth it
Hey, no, fuck that, you're worth it. It's worth it for you to live. It's worth it to hang on just long enough for life to get better because it WILL. I know that sounds like meaningless platitudes and shit, but man just reading this one little blurb on Reddit I'm so fuckin proud of you. You took 28 years of trauma on the chin, turned around one day and said "no I'm gonna live life on my terms. About two years ago I switched to cocaine because I could work the next day. Jeremy is telling me this from a hospital bed, six stories above Seattle. What’s the life purpose of a gay man?
Even being in the closet is extremely risky for my safety and social security. I feel that I'm beyond the question of if I'm attracted to other men, but the larger question I have is "Should I be gay?" because I potentially could live life without the obsticals that includes it. For LGBT people trying to financially plan for their future, in particular, the obstacles can seem almost innumerable—and seldom acknowledged. Bisexual women and transgender people had the highest instances of poverty, at 
Is it worth it being gay?
Maybe it just takes time for things to take off. I also tend to compare myself to others ALL the time about everything and I see a happy gay couple or a straight couple with a baby and envy hits me so hard that I go into overthinking and in the end- self pity. Maybe my life just moves much much slower than the lives of most people. .
Being gay is hard but life may be worth living
I feel the same, I don’t see the point in being alive when the world is shit. I see you live in a first world country, I live in latam, and I truly don’t see any future for myself. There is no scenario in my head where I’m living a happy life, it just seems like life is just pain and very little reward and not worth living. Like you I’d feel cruel to bring another human into this world. .
The hidden costs and joys of being LGBT
What’s the life purpose of a gay man? Existential questions aren't just for gay men. Recently, while chatting with a close friend who's contemplating parenthood, I found myself mulling over the same big life questions. Just to provide some context: I’m 40ish, I'm still single, never having had a serious relationship. . The Epidemic of Gay Loneliness
They believe being gay is a choice because they start from a place of homophobia and need to rationalize it rather than questioning that belief. Most people have a moral framework where people choose to do bad things, so it's convenient to lump homosexuality in with other immoral actions that are purely selfish choices. . 
HOW DOES ANYONE STILL THINK BEING GAY IS A CHOICE??????
Gay characters these days are so commonplace they’re even allowed to have flaws. Still, even as we celebrate the scale and speed of this change, the rates of depression, loneliness and substance abuse in the gay community remain stuck in the same place they’ve been for decades. .